Although very traditional sympathy arrangements are still requested in many parts of the country, most florists today are happy to create a floral tribute that is original, creative & appropriate. These more contemporary arrangements, using a variety of
flowers and containers, provide the family with the option to take them home, give to close friends, or deliver to hospitals, nursing homes or places of worship after the service. Mixed flower arrangements which look "just picked from the garden" are a popular option, as are baskets of green and flowering plants. Your professional florist can suggest a variety of floral sympathy tributes.

Sometimes I see a charity mentioned "in lieu of flowers" in the death notice. Is it still appropriate to send flowers?

Because flowers help you say what is often difficult to express, they are always appropriate and in good taste. Many people want to express their sympathy and show respect for the deceased in a variety of ways, including charitable contri butions, food donations, a helping hand, and cards and flowers sent to the family’s home or funeral service. Flowers also play a functional role, adding warmth to the service and providing the visible emotional support that the bereaved need during this time.

Do some flower arrangements look too "cheery" for a funeral?

Absolutely not. A funeral service is a way to honor someone’s life, and bright,
colorful flowers are a meaningful part of this tribute. In addition to adding
beauty to an otherwise somber occasion, flowers provide a comforting diversion something to talk about or look at—during the visitation.

What can I do to make my arrangement special from the rest?

To make your floral tribute particularly special, ask your florist to create an arrangement that fits the deceased’s personality in some way. For example, a rustic basket of wildflowers would nicely honor someone who loved the outdoors. You could also include his or her favorite flowers or colors, or a flower that has special significance in your relationship with that person. Whatever you do, the family is sure to notice and appreciate it.

I am part of a group. What are your suggestions?

When groups, including grandchildren, friends, neighbors, business associates,
and clubs go in together on flowers, the arrangements can be very special and
make a larger showing. Such pieces can include standing sprays and wreaths.
When sending flowers as a group, include a contact name and address on the
card soothe family knows who to thank.

What is appropriate to send for a cremation?

A tastefully done floral tribute adds beauty to any type of memorial service,
whether it’s a traditional burial or a cremation. Families may choose a piece
designed for display with the urn, or an arrangement that can be enjoyed in
the home after the service.

I found out about the death after the funeral was over. What can I do?

A floral arrangement received at the home after the activity surrounding the
funeral can be a comforting, welcome reminder that friends haven’t forgotten. In fact, research shows that bereaved family and friends appreciate being thought of in the weeks and months after the funeral. A personal note or "we are thinking of you" message with the flowers would be especially nice. Any support you can offer during the grieving process will let them know that you care.

Can you recommend an alternative to flowers?

Yes, our Comfort gift baskets are designed to celebrate the life of the deceased as well as provide solace to the family. They contain a hand-blown glass teardrop memory ornament, a silver frame, reproduction vintage handkerchief, hand-baked Devonshire biscuits and an Aromatherapy Compassion pillar candle. Wild Thing’s staff can customize a gift basket to meet your needs including incorporating fresh flowers or a plant.